Five months after they met, she was ready to have his babies; today, she confesses he was the worst she has dated
Verah Sidika and her ex-boyfriend, Jimmy Chansa, who is from Tanzania, met while she was in TZ, and this is what she said then,
“We met here in Tanzania. We started communicating and what followed was dating. I feel like a hopeless romantic and when I fall in love, I do for real. We have so many things in common and he is the love of my life. I really do love him. We have been dating for five months now,’
‘When you meet someone, you feel like he is the one. It’s not a matter of time but respect and understanding. I’m 30 and I think I’m ready for kids. I am a keeper unless I can’t take it. My relationship with a Nigerian guy was abusive, I had to leave.’
Then leave, she had to do again, and she has given her reasons during a Q&A session
Sidika alleged that Jimmy did so many things that she couldn’t withstand, despite being branded the innocent one by netizens.
“Saddest thing about this relationship is that people thought he was the most innocent, decent person I ever dated.
I’d too until the real person unveiled. The things I went through and saw. Waah! I have never been shocked in my life, out of all my relationships it was the most shocking one to me. Better the devil you know than the Angel you don’t know. When the same mistakes are repeated severally it means it’s a habit that will never change and those mistakes were not silly things. Proper terrible things, that No woman can tolerate”
She added “Waah, never seen any of what I experienced in my past or present relationships. And of all relationships, I have ever been in. People thought this person was the best, kwanza later when I showed my pals they could not believe that this person was capable of such.
It’s cause of growth and maturity, otherwise, if I was to post the things I saw and went through here, Y’all would have hated yourselves for thinking it was the best relationship. I had to end it faster. Woi! in so glad I ended it”